Social Networks

Assalamualaikum and a very good day dear readers.


Most of us do have our own social networks aite? What are the things that you always post in your social networks? As for me, I usually post my happy feelings, the truth (usually flaws) of our government and my opinion about it, quran/ hadith verses, advices etc.  


I know very well that not all people enjoy reading my statuses in my social networks especially when it comes to political issues. Well guys, I'm just trying to enlighten some facts that we as citizens of the country should know, so that we won't be cheated over and over again. (I don't know if any of you guys love to be cheated)


In this post, I'd like to point out 3 things that I personally do not enjoy reading/ seeing in social networks :


1. Curses.Your anger towards your friends/family members are not meant to be shared in your social networks. Seriously, if you are not satisfied, why don't you just confront them. You might hurt others with your words because they wouldn't know whom are you pointing your anger at. It's not professional anyway.

IM ANGRY!! STAY AWAY FROM ME!!

p/s : I love it when people share their happiness in their social networks. Sedap mata memandang. But please, do not brag. You might end up annoying people. hehehe.


2.  The pictures of foods that you had eaten. Be it for your breakfast/ lunch/ dinner etc. Not all your social networks' friends can afford those foods. Can you imagine them drooling over those pictures without having the chance to taste them?

This is what I had for dinner!! Yeah, smell them :)

3. Your romantic relationship with your partner. Please. You don't have to let the whole world to see your "intimacy" by having romantic conversations in your social networks (unless you are married).

I love you. Let the whole world know baby..

Okay. That's all for now. Honestly, before this, I did show my anger in fb (but I never cursed I think :P  ). I also did post a few pictures of foods. I regretted doing those things. Thus, I come out with this. So, this post is actually a reminder to myself. Well, you can follow it if you like. Hehehe. But, the 3rd one, I never did. If I did, it was with my family members which I think is okay. I mean, after all, they are my family members. Mahram tuuu. hehehe :) 


P/S :Don't kill me. This is my personal opinion. Everybody has their own aite. You may not agree with me. It doesn't matter. :)

Power vs Powerless

I have the POWER! so, just shut up and listen!!

One fine afternoon...

Abu   : Ali, can you accompany me to the police station after this.

Ali      : Erkk. But why?

Boss   : What kind of question is that. Don't you know that Amat threatened me yesterday. He 

              said he'll put a bomb in my car.

Ali      : Like seriously? I thought that was a joke. I mean, he mentioned that in the 

             conversation that he had with you in facebook. 

Abu   : So what. Just because it was mentioned in facebook, you think it is not serious?

Ali      : But he ended his so-called "threat" with "hahahaha". I mean, urm, I just couldn't see     

              the seriousness there. 

Abu    : I don't care. I still feel insecure.

Ali       : I see. I guess we need to bring Amat along then.

Abu     : Hahahaha. You are so lame. You don't have to bring the criminal along with you to 

              lodge a police report.

Ali        : My dear "intelligent" friend, I'm taking him as a victim here. Not a criminal.

Abu      : What kind of joke is this?

Ali        :  Well, I think Amat should feel insecure too.

Abu      : Why??

Ali         : Because his "threat" was to answer your " I'll kill you if you come late to the office 

                tomorrow." statement. You don't even put "hahahaha" in the end of your 

                statement.

Abu       : Now, this is funny!! Hahahaha. Don't you even dream to do that.

Ali         : Give me ONE concrete reason for that statement.

Abu      : Simply because I know people with power. Hence, I have the POWER. And Amat is 

                just a poor POWERLESS guy! In this country, people with power rule. And for those 

              powerless ones, well, you guyscan just get ready to be crushed anytime and anywhere 

              we like.

Ali         :   ............................ *sigh*

You've got to listen to me even when I'm bullshitting!

It Won't Last Forever

Assalamualaikum and a very good day dear readers ;)

These few days, I have been observing my friends' statuses in Facebook, Twitter as well as their posts in the blogs. Some sounded happy, some angry, some were sad and there were also some that sounded as if the writers have lose their faiths. In contrary, I myself did not really update my status in any of my social networks these 2-3 days because people say, "the lesser we talk the lesser mistakes we would possibly make." Maybe you will understand what I'm talking about if you have read my previous post entitled Thank You. Honestly there were times that I felt like posting something, but considering that it might hurt the other party, I decided not to do so. And yeah..I'm quite proud with myself that I managed to do so. (Okay2, I know it's not even 1 week yet, but I least I'm trying. Kan3?? Hehehehe )

Yeay!! I made it!! xD

Now, I'm going off track. Ngeee. :)

Okay, back to the topic, reading all these made me realize something. Sometimes we worry too much about the small things that happened in our lives. Of course "we" here includes ME as well. Hehehehe. ;)

But, Prophet (S.A.W) PBUH once said that:

 "The world is just like a drop of water from the ocean and the ocean is the hereafter"

See...

So, after reading this I realize that we (including me) should not get carried away with all the things that are happening in this world (be it good or be it bad). Oppsss. I am NOT asking you guys to be an ignorant. No..No..No.. What I'm trying to say here is, if something bad happens to us, we should accept it with our full heart (redha) because it won't last forever people. We will all die one day. But there, in 'akhirat', yeah that one IS INDEED EVER LASTING. In addition, "Nothing happens without Allah's permission" (At-Thagaabun 64:11). The same goes if good things happen to us. We must remember that they won't last long. So, do not forget Allah. Be grateful and act modestly because Allah S.W.T do not only test us through pain but also comfort. 

I think that's all for now and I truly hope that this entry would at least help 1 or 2 of you to change your perceptions and way of thinking about life. The point is, DO NOT ever go against Allah, and you'll be safe! InsyaAllah ;)

Yes, Allah ALWAYS knows the BEST! ;)

So teacher, are we living in a democratic country?

Assalamualaikum and good evening dear readers.

As a teacher-to-be, I always imagine all kind of weird and tough questions that my students might ask me in the future. Well, the students nowadays are very creative in asking questions you see. So I feel that I need to have early preparation. And yesterday, a question struck my mind and I truly have NO exact answer for it. So I wonder if my student will ask me the same question. How should I answer them. Below is the situation that I might face:

ME            : Okay class, today we are learning about the ruling systems in countries around

                     the world.

STUDENT : What are they teacher?

ME             : They are democracy system, autocracy system, republic system and many more.

                      We'll go through one by one ya?

STUDENT : Okay. So what is democracy system teacher?

ME             : Basically it is a system where the public is given full right to choose their leader 

                      and they have an equal say in the decisions that affect their lives.

STUDENT : So what about our country teacher? Are we living in a democratic country?

ME             : .....................

Now, tell me what should I answer? Yeah right, I might simply answer "YES, WE ARE". But what if they come across the pictures below?

I have NO SAY on all of these pictures because they say a government servant or even a government servant-to-be cannot go against the government. And that's how democratic we are ;)

It's Your Fault

Assalamualaikum and a very good day to all mydear readers..Today i would love to talk about E.G.O..yup, ego! What's with ego?? getting very excited to read further right?? i know.. (sometimes being 'perasan' makes me feel great..haha..)

Ok..Let's get back to the story..

This morning, i had my literature class for 3 hours.. it was not long for me because i am soo into literature that i can even have the class for the whole day.. so, during the break, one of my very close friends, told me about her friend.. to make it easier, let me name my friend as 'A' and her friend as 'B'..

So, here the story goes...

"B" did something that annoyed "A" very much.. the problem was, "B" never asked for forgiveness from "A" even after "A" showed to her that she did not like it.. 

Now, you might think that "B" did not know and couldn't get the hint given by "A"... NOPE! You are totally WRONG because "B" actually met "A" after that and told her that she just didn't want to ask for forgiveness because she felt EMBARRASSED  to do so.. 

Can u imagine that?? she did realize her mistake and yet felt embarrassed to ask for forgiveness?? What's wrong with that?? IT'S YOUR FAULT! Admit it.. why do we have to let the EGO inside us to destroy ourselves?? i mean, i just can't see any bad consequence that we will ever face if we ask for forgiveness.. in fact, asking for forgiveness is always the best way to settle down all the SIMPLE problems that we are facing with people around us.. we don't have to have such a HUGE EGO inside us to make a small problem grows to a bigger one! Why don't we start to cut our EGOS down and lead a more easy and happy life in the future..??

but..waittttttt... i too feel that, it is very necessary for us to HAVE A REASON to say sorry.. DO NOT say sorry for no reason and make people feel uncomfortable.. hehe..

Taare Zameen Par

Assalamualaikum..how are you doing dear readers?hope you all are just fine..

Today i would love to share with you guys about a story that my classmates and i watched during our "Falsafah Pendidikan" slot just now.. it's a Hindustan movie entitled TAARE ZAMEEN PAR.

awww..i just love amir khan..

Well, as for me, this movie is just so great. it is basically about how a kid who suffers from dyslexia (Ishaan) was being degraded by his own father and teachers.. Ishaan was sent to a boarding school as a punishment for he did not perform well in his study.. what a bad father.. i certainly don't want to have such father as mine.. however, this little kiddo was sooo lucky that he met an Art Teacher (Amir Khan) who understood his problem really well.. He brought a new life for Ishaan.. how sweet... the ending was soooo touching that i almost cried.. fortunately i did realize that i was in the class with my 39 other friends around me.. so i hold my tears back...haha..

Actually, what i would like to highlight here are....

1) WE MUST NEVER UNDERESTIMATE ANYONE IN OUR LIVES

2) PARENTS OUGHT NOT TO IGNORE ANY ABNORMAL SYMPTOMS SHOWED BY THEIR KIDS

3) TEACHERS..YES WE TEACHERS-TO-BE, SHOULD NEVER EVER MAKE OUR STUDENTS FEEL DOWN AND LET THEM LOST THEIR SELF ESTEEMS...please don't..have some some faith on them no matter how bad their performance are.. do not ever scold them with harsh words and voice in public, especially in the class..NEVER CALL THEM IDIOT!! 

and...last but not least..(this has nothing to do with the movie)

PLEASE STOP TALKING ABOUT PEOPLE'S IMPERFECTIONS AS IF WE ARE SOOOOOO PERFECT.. come on.. seriously, i can barely stand with people talking about others' physical imperfections.. you might wonder why am i talking about this all of sudden.. it's actually because one of the actors in the movie has a slightly "jongang" teeth.. and there were some people with "PERFECT TEETH' were talking and laughing about his teeth which i think is very very impolite and rude, i would say.. i might be oversensitive here but WHO ARE YOU to talk about people..that is just unacceptable..

okay..okay.. enough of nagging.. sorry if im being quite emotional here but i am very unhappy with the attitude of some people.. this is not the first time.. the same people also always talk about one of our lecturers who have problem with her eyes.. i can accept if you want to talk about someone's attitude but NOT their physical imperfection.. that's just unfair because they didn't ask for it.. remember guys.. what goes around comes around.. you know what i mean.. hehe..

so, till then.. see ya.. ciaoo..

Assalamualaikum...

DESIRE vs NECESSITY

So, since all the assignments had been submitted and no more tests are coming around, i am enjoying myself going online and watching movies these few days. Yes..i am very well aware that my FINAL EXAM is starting in just a week..but can i have this pleasure at least until this sunday?? pleashhhh...hehe..

Okay, as i were facebooking just now, i came across a post by Miss Florinta Edward

So, here is the post :

"We all have a thousand wishes... to be thinner..to have more money..a cool car..a day off..a new phone..to date the person of your dreams. A cancer patient only has one wish: to beat this disease. I know that 97% of you won't post this as your status...but my friends will be the 3% that do. In honor of someone who died, or is fighting cancer, or even had cancer...post this for at least one hour.."

As i read this, i can feel how ungrateful i was in my life.. i complained, whined and sighed just because i did not get things that i desired for..  but for them, the cancer patients (of course for any other patients too), all they want is TO RECOVER and become healthy again... it's a NECESSITY..  the need to be healthy in order to continue their lives and to take care of their families.. but do we even care?? all we want is to fulfill our DESIRES  and start grumbling and protesting if we don't get it.. seriously, do we even realize that there are millions of people who would be the happiest person in the world if they can replace our place?? yes they are!! trust me..

Well, dear readers, this post is definitely a reminder for MYSELF and i really hope that i can make you realize too.. PLEASE.. just be grateful of what you have.. if you think you have  less, there are zillions more who have LESSER.. remember that..

I think that's all for now.. need to go for my beloved RED HOUSE PRACTICE! chaiyookkk RED HOUSE!! need to get myself healthy too u see.. hahaha.. okay.. see ya soon..

papai..

ciaaooo...

assalamualaikum..

JUST TO PONDER..

                        We want this                                                                                           They want this

       AND